Perimenopause & Menopause: 5 Things Every Woman is Searching For (And Needs to Know)
Perimenopause & Menopause: 5 Things Every Woman is Searching For (And Needs to Know)
If you’ve ever typed “why am I so tired all the time?” or “what’s happening to my body?” into Google, you’re not alone. For many women, perimenopause and menopause come with a wave of confusing, frustrating, and sometimes frightening changes—most of which we weren’t warned about.
At Head 2 Toe Solutions, we hear these questions every day from women who are strong, capable, and used to holding everything together—until suddenly, they don’t feel like themselves anymore. You may be the rock of your family, successful in your career, and ticking all the boxes… but inside, something feels off.
Let’s explore the top 5 things women are searching for during this powerful (but often overwhelming) transition—and what you can do about them.
1. “Am I in Perimenopause?” – Recognising the Signs
Perimenopause is the lead-up to menopause, and it can begin as early as your late 30’s, typically with neurodivergent ladies, or childbirth at later age can also trigger it to begin. It’s not just about hot flushes or skipped periods—it’s often subtle and sneaky.
Common symptoms include:
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Irregular or heavier periods
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Anxiety, mood swings, or tearfulness
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Poor sleep, especially waking around 2–4am
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Brain fog or difficulty concentrating
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Low libido
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Weight gain (especially around the middle)
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Joint aches, fatigue, and low motivation
If you feel like “something isn’t quite right,” trust that instinct. You know your body better than anyone.
2. “Why Am I So Tired?” – Fatigue, Brain Fog & Menopause Anxiety
That bone-deep tiredness? The kind that doesn’t go away after a good night’s sleep? It’s real. Hormonal fluctuations during perimenopause disrupt everything from your adrenal function to your sleep cycles, leading to exhaustion, irritability, and feeling mentally “foggy.”
You might forget words mid-sentence. Struggle to make decisions. Snap at your loved ones. These aren’t character flaws—they’re hormone-related. Anxiety may also creep in, especially for women who’ve never experienced it before.
👉 Support Tip:
Eliminating and heavily restricting carb in your diet worsens brain fog, high protein diet with complex carb is recommended in menopause transition phase. Good breakfast makes a huge difference. Working with a health professional who truly listens can be transformative.
3. “Should I Try HRT or Natural Remedies?”
We’re lucky to have a women’s Health Pharmacist based at our clinic, Bo from ‘EmpowHer Menopause’ has joined Head 2 Toe Solutions and is available for consultations to discuss this very topic. Helping you decide the best course of action for you.
There’s no one-size-fits-all answer. Some women find enormous relief with Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT), while others prefer a natural route—or a mix of both.
HRT may be an effective and safe option for many women—but it’s important to make an informed decision with a knowledgeable health provider who understands the full picture of your symptoms, history, and lifestyle.
If you have family history of breast cancer, fibroids, endometriosis, adenomyosis and history of experiencing bad side effects from contraceptive pills, Bo can explain and address your concerns.
4. “Why Can’t I Lose Weight?” – The Menopause Belly Struggle
One of the most searched (and sensitive) topics is weight gain, especially around the abdomen. The drop in oestrogen, combined with stress, poor sleep, and insulin resistance, creates the perfect storm for fat storage.
The truth? It’s harder—but not impossible—to maintain a healthy weight in your 40s and 50s.
What helps most:
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Resistance training (like Reformer Pilates or strength classes)
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Managing cortisol through sleep, rest, and breathwork
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Eating more protein, more fibre, and less sugar/alcohol
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Prioritising consistency over intensity
Forget quick fixes. This stage is about sustainable, supportive movement and treating your body with respect.
5. “Why Can’t I Sleep?” – The Nighttime Battle
Night sweats. Racing thoughts. Waking up at 3am like clockwork. Sleep issues are one of the most disruptive symptoms of perimenopause.
Why? Hormonal changes interfere with melatonin production, temperature regulation, and the body’s ability to wind down. Add stress and a busy mind, and sleep becomes elusive.
What may help:
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Magnesium and herbal teas
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Reducing screen time 1 hour before bed
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Keeping a consistent sleep routine
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Using breathwork or mindfulness to settle the nervous system
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Speaking with a professional about HRT or sleep support options
You Deserve Real Support—Head to Toe
At Head 2 Toe Solutions, we’re here for women just like you: tired of being dismissed, confused by vague symptoms, and ready to finally focus on themselves.
Whether it’s through physiotherapy, women’s health consultations, Reformer Pilates, or simply a space to talk—we offer care that’s grounded in science and delivered with empathy.
You don’t have to keep searching in silence. Let’s take the next step together.
Ready to feel like yourself again?
👉 Book a consultation or exercise class today.
Womens Health Physio – Book with Laura
Womens Health Pharmacist – Book with Bo
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